What would I change?

I was asked this question today and thought I would answer it in my blog...

If you could re-do an event in your life, which event would it be?

I'm sure most people would think that I would redo my first marriage, maybe the who, the when or even the why. I would have to say not at all. There were reasons we got married and their names are Jonathan and Sabrina. I love my two children so much and know they will never understand the amount. I will tell you that I did love the Ernie I married but honestly not the one I divorced. I will not lie about that. But unfortunatley lies caused all the problems. Dad taught me at a young age that lying will not work, or save anything. I wish I would have remembered that. All I will say is that if you lie to your spouse about something (for years) that you claim only affects you... you are only lying to yourself.

Anyway back to the question...

To be completely honest I would not change one thing! Everything that I went through as a child, all that I have do up to today has made me the person that I am. I have to say that I am a wonderful wife and mother. I am as independent and as intelligent that my father ever hoped for; and stubborn enough to stay that way. I hope that everyone remembers:

"You are who you are, no more, no less!"

Be thankful and thoughtful of who you are. Don't dwell on the past or look to the future. Be who you are today and you can respect yourself. After all isn't that what matters? I know I can look at myself in the mirror and see me: A STRONG DAUGHTER OF GOD.

So would I re-do anything? NO!!!!